First, control those negative thoughts swirling around in your mind. If you think plans will go wrong, they probably will. And if you think plans will go well, you will most likely succeed. So banish those negative thoughts and start thinking like a winner. Practice positive self-talk. Look in the mirror every morning and repeat, “I am in control of my wedding and it will be beautiful.” This is your mantra. Don’t set yourself up for unrealistic expectations and you won’t be disappointed. Remember, no wedding is perfect but it can be close to perfect if you start out by thinking positively.